DR. ADRIAN SCHARFETTER PHD, LMFT, CST-S

Where Depth Meets Desire

You're successful, self-aware, and ready to go deeper.
I help individuals and couples untangle the complex layers of love, intimacy, and sexuality—with insight, integrity, and a modern therapeutic approach.

Whether you're seeking to:

  • Reignite connection in your relationship

  • Explore your erotic self with compassion

  • Navigate sexual blocks, shame, or trauma

  • Deepen emotional and physical intimacy

  • Understand sexual issues and struggles that are important for both individuals and relationships

...I meet you with curiosity, skill, and zero judgment.

Specializing in:

  • Sex therapy for individuals and couples who are both ready and open
    to exploring the next meaningful steps in their personal and relational journeys.

  • Assistance with a variety of sexual problems and concerns for both men
    and women to help individuals navigate their unique challenges.

  • Conscious kink, non-monogamy, and sexual identity

  • Integrative approaches rooted in Depth Psychology, IFS, and somatic work

Let’s rewrite the story of your sex life—grounded in authenticity, growth, and real connection.

I'm here to help you prioritize your relationship and support you on this journey.


Certified Sex Therapist: Empowering You to Embrace Authentic Intimacy

As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I'm passionate about helping you discover greater awareness, self-empowerment, and understanding in your intimate relationships. My goal is to guide you in cultivating consensual, safe, and pleasurable experiences in your sex life and communication.

I approach therapy from a place of sexual empowerment and sex-positivity, helping you understand your own sexual and intimate needs and boundaries. My focus is on empowering you and your partner(s) to:

Ready to Start?

If you're looking for a certified sex therapist who works with modern, intelligent, self-aware individuals and couples — you’re in the right place.

I offer online sex therapy and relationship counseling for clients in California. Whether you’re navigating low libido, mismatched desire, shame, or communication struggles, let’s talk.

 Book a free consultation here.
Or learn more about my therapy approach.

Adrian Scharfetter, sex therapist

Adrian Scharfetter, PhD, LMFT, CST
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
CA License # 113824


Business Days: Monday - Tuesday - Wednesday - Thursday
Email for Appointment Availability
Facebook: Athenian Counseling

AASECT Website

“So then, the relationship of self to other is the complete realization that loving yourself is impossible without loving everything defined as other than yourself.”
— Alan Watts
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