DR. ADRIAN SCHARFETTER PHD, LMFT, CST-S

Sex Therapy and Relationship Counseling, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Supervisor, Licensed Marriage Family Therapist, Ketamine - Assisted Psychotherapy Provider

Where Depth Meets Desire

You're successful, self-aware, and ready to go deeper.
I help individuals and couples untangle the complex layers of love, intimacy, and sexuality—with insight, integrity, and a modern therapeutic approach.

Whether you're seeking to:

  • Reignite connection in your relationship

  • Explore your erotic self with compassion

  • Navigate sexual blocks, shame, or trauma

  • Deepen emotional and physical intimacy

  • Understand sexual issues and struggles that are important for both individuals and relationships

...I meet you with curiosity, skill, and zero judgment.

Specializing in:

  • Sex therapy for individuals and couples who are ready for the next steps

  • Emotional and sexual intimacy for couples

  • Conscious kink, non-monogamy, and sexual identity

  • Integrative approaches rooted in Depth Psychology, IFS, and somatic work

Let’s rewrite the story of your sex life—grounded in authenticity, growth, and real connection.

I'm here to help you prioritize your relationship and support you on this journey.


Certified Sex Therapist: Empowering You to Embrace Authentic Intimacy

As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I'm passionate about helping you discover greater awareness, self-empowerment, and understanding in your intimate relationships. My goal is to guide you in cultivating consensual, safe, and pleasurable experiences in your sex life and communication.

Together, we'll explore:

  • Your unique definitions of love and sex: Uncovering what these mean to you and your partner(s).

  • Effective communication: Learning how to express your needs and desires with confidence and clarity.

  • Self-worth and validation: Discovering what these mean to you and how to foster them in your relationships.

I approach therapy from a place of sexual empowerment and sex-positivity, helping you understand your own sexual and intimate needs and boundaries. My focus is on empowering you and your partner(s) to:

  • Find deeper meaning in your relationship

  • Set achievable goals

  • Gain clarity on your shared purpose and direction

If you're ready to embark on this journey of self-discovery and connection, I'm here to support you. Please don't hesitate to reach out and let's discuss how I can help you achieve your goals.

Adrian Scharfetter, PhD, LMFT, CST
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
CA License # 113824

Teletherapy for all individuals in the state of California.


Email: adrian@atheniancounseling.com
Business Days: Tuesday - Wednesday - Thursday
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Facebook: Athenian Counseling

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“So then, the relationship of self to other is the complete realization that loving yourself is impossible without loving everything defined as other than yourself.”
— Alan Watts
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